Who's That Lady?

My friend asked me earlier why men are so caught up with a woman's physical beauty and what it takes to get past that. She spoke of a scenario where a man is involved with two women. The first isn't ugly, but isn't something to marvel at. However, she cooks, cleans, and is a beast in the bedroom. The second one has little to nothing that compares to the first, except she's a complete bombshell. She said that women don't understand why guys always go for number 2. I'll tell you why.

First, as everyone knows, men are sexually charged creatures. We see, we want. It's that simple. Nothing compares to waking up in the morning and seeing a dime laying there next to you. It's what's at the top of Macho Mountain for some people. When it comes to woman number 1, although we appreciate everything she does, with the exception of the sex we can do it ourselves. The need for that kind of thing doesn't compare to that initial drive when we see a dime walk by. It probably won't ever.

The only thing that can make a man look past all of that is himself. No matter how perfect a woman is physically or romantically, that man isn't going to change his ways until he says it's a wrap. You can't convince us with acts sacrifice, gifts, sex, or anything else you have to offer. Women shouldn't blame themselves or quesiton their worth because men don't seem to pick up on it. We do. But that has little to nothing to do with whether or not we will choose to look behind the initial physical attraction.